A grave mystery

By Eric Willoughby

 

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Something strange has happened in Harlem, Georgia, which must be of interest to all Sons. It concerns Babe's father's grave, in the town cemetery.

Any account of Babe's life will say that he never knew his father, as he was 10 months old when Oliver Sr died suddenly, on November 25, 1892.

Babe certainly did not know his father, though he probably visited the grave, and his mother must have done so. Although the family moved from Harlem to Madison in 1891, Emmie retained a house in South Hicks Street until 1898. It is probable that her mother moved into the empty house, and this was the reason for Emmie returning to Harlem to give birth.

If Babe and/or Emmie did visit the grave, they would have seen the headstone engraving, saying that Captain Oliver Hardy died on November 25 1892, and, presumably, they did not argue with that.

The grave stayed that way until about two years ago, when a second memorial plaque was added, saying that Oliver died exactly one year earlier, 1891.

This raises a host of questions in itself, but the biggest mystery is who instigated the change and who authorised it? And on what basis was the new information accepted?

If Oliver died in November 1891, he never knew his child, who was born in the following January.

But this is a minor point compared with the many others, which the new date raises:

  • Who gave the stonemason the "wrong" date of Hardy's death, ie a year later than the actual death. Emmie was not a poor woman, and could afford a  gravestone immediately after the death. Even if the stone was carved much later, the mason would have found out the date of death, so he could carve it. If the work was done soon after the death, no stonemason would carve the date of a future year on the headstone. And if the year was wrong, Emmie, who surely visited the grave, would have noticed at the time.

 

  • The Mortuary Committee of the Confederate Survivors' Association paid tribute to Oliver Hardy thus: "Oliver Hardy of the 16th Georgia Regiment, found always faithful at the drumbeat. This man followed the flag and fought the battles of his brave regiment on the historic fields of Virginia. He was a man of great endurance, and, having survived the war for 25 years, died suddenly in the twinkling of an eye." (McCabe's book Babe, p.4). The Civil War ended in 1867. 25 years later is 1892.
 
  • Morgan County Court issued a summons against Oliver Hardy, to appear on the first day of October 1892, over an unpaid electricity bill for the hotel. The hearing duly took place and the sum was paid.

 

  • After Oliver's death, Emmie applied to the Ordinary Court for financial support for Norvell, obviously already born, since no court would entertain an appeal for an unborn child, and the court invited objections to be placed by the first Monday of January, 1893. This notice was published in the Madisonian, dated December 23rd 1892.

 

  • Hotel owner Turnell and Mayor Butler would not allow Emmie to take over as official manager of the hotel after Oliver's death. She therefore embarked on a new venture, to be called The Hardy House, and to be opened in April 1893.

 

  • In the Birmingham interview with McCabe, Babe says: "My father Oliver Hardy…died when I was quite young…"

 

  • The Georgia Historical Quarterly (Autumn/Winter 2003) contains an article by Prof Bob Wilson, about Babe's time in Georgia. He says Oliver and Emmy took over the Turnell Butler Hotel in Madison, in 1891 when Emmie was pregnant. He gives Babe's date of birth (18th January 1892) and states: "…ten months later, on November 22, Captain Hardy died of a heart attack."

 

  • In his highly respected research paper Oliver Hardy, Genius of Comedy, was a Madison Boy, Marshall Williams adds a detail: "On November 22 1892,  just two weeks short of his fifty-first birthday, Oliver Hardy…died quite suddenly." Marshall Williams is a historian and senior executive at the Morgan County Records Archives, based in Madison Ga.

 

  • Emmie was able to return to Harlem to give birth in January 1892 because Oliver was on hand to run the hotel in her absence.

 

  • Oliver Hardy, former County Tax Collector, hotelier, bon viveur, distinguished soldier, was well-known in Madison and frequently featured in The Madisonian. The issues during the week of November 22 1891 make no mention of his death. The issues for the same period in 1892 are missing.

 

  • On October 28 1892, The Madisonian ran an article on the Turnell Butler Hotel, and included the words: "Captain Oliver Hardy has made a name for himself as a host."

 

Can all these things be wrong?

Whoever commissioned and arranged for the new memorial must have had some powerfully convincing reasons, yet none have come to light. A fascinating mystery, indeed.