From the North-West and West:

Leave the A35 (Poole by-pass) at the junction with the A350 (signed Blandford to the north and Upton to the south) follow signs for Poole Centre and cross-channel ferries. After 1 mile pass under a railway bridge, carry straight on to the junction with Ashmore Avenue (Traffic lights Hamworthy Library and Carter Community School on the left) Turn right at these lights and follow the road over a level-crossing, the road bends sharply to the right and the car park is within l00 metres on your left. There are two buildings only in the Park, the Café and the Centre. There are signs to the Centre from the Car Park.

From the East:

From Poole Town Centre follow signs for the ferry terminal. Go over the lifting bridge and at the next roundabout (where the ferry terminal is signed to the left) turn right towards Upton. At the second set of traffic lights (Carter Community School on the right) turn left onto Ashmore Avenue and follow directions to the car park as in the explanation above. 

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