VIRGINITY RESTORATION-WHO & WHY
There are quite a few different reasons why a woman might want
to become a virgin again:
- She may be marrying a man who expects her to be a virgin.
In some cultures, this is an absolute requirement.
Sometimes it must be documented by bringing home, and
displaying, a bed sheet with blood from the honeymoon. In
some countries, if her husband or his family simply doubt
her virginity, they can KILL her and not
break any law. Amazing! Horrifying! Sadly, it's true.
- Perhaps she is making a new life for herself, and wants
to put the past behind her. Maybe she was promiscuous or
a prostitute.
- If she is trying to resolve an early trauma like rape or
incest, she might want to erase the physical signs of
that.
- A woman entering a religious order that values chastity
may want to prepare herself.
Various aspects of virginity restoration are discussed. Some
women may want to refer to all the sections. Other women will
want less information.
I anticipate some feedback complaining that I am helping women
deceive men. Let me address this directly.
From the beginning of time, men have deceived women.
In my practice, I see the results, often tragic, of the
deceptions of men:
- "You don't have to worry about getting pregnant. I'm
sterile."
- "Try this drug. It's safe. You'll like it."
- "Relax. If you get pregnant, I'll marry you."
- "I haven't had sex with anyone but you, so you don't
have to worry about STD's."
- "I can stop drinking anytime I want to."
- "I'm not married." or "I'm separated from
my wife." or "I'm in the process of a
divorce."
- "I know it will be your first time to have sex, but
I love you. I'll never leave you."
From my experience of listening to tens of thousands of women,
I believe that some men deceive women, usually for selfish
reasons. If a women wants to mislead a man, that's her choice. I
can't judge her. The end justifies the means, or it doesn't.
If a woman wants to become a virgin again, I will do what I
can to assist her.
HOMEPAGE