VIRGINITY RESTORATION-EMOTIONAL
This is a more complicated process. The technique depends on the reason why the woman is not a virgin. This requires thought and creativity. Some examples:
A woman lost her virginity because she got drunk and had sex without really knowing what she was doing. She should forgive herself for this AND forgive the man who took advantage of her. Since she did not actually give her consent for sex, she didn't give up her virginity. It was taken from, though only temporarily.
While a drug addict, a woman was promiscuous and a prostitute. This woman should realize that she is not the same woman. Another woman did all those things. When she left that life, she became a new person. This new person has never had sex.
If a woman lost her virginity due to rape or incest, she may need professional counseling to deal with any residual trauma. Then she must forgive the man or men involved AND forgive herself if she has placed any blame on herself (this is NEVER appropriate, but many women blame themselves, at least partially).
A woman may be preparing to enter a religious order in which chastity is assumed and promised. In this case, she should go to confession to a minister, priest or other religious person. Or, she could confess to God directly. After the confession, which is always followed by absolution, she can consider herself reborn, a new woman, and a virgin again.
If a woman lost her virginity to a man who deceived her or abandoned her, she must forgive him first. She must also forgive herself for any regrets she has about her role in this. Once she completes the forgiveness, she erases the past, and her virginity is restored.