How to treat your minister

There are two extremes to be avoided as far as the treatment of ministers is concerned. One is any tendency to treat them with disrespect or even with contempt. There was more than a suggestion of this evil in the Church in Galatia. Judaizers were present in the church there. They had developed enmity towards the apostle. He says: "Am I therefore become your enemy, because I tell you the truth?" (Gal.4:16). It is a serious mistreatment of the minister to develop a hostile attitude to the truth which he proclaims.
Another extreme to be avoided is any tendency to put the minister on a pedestal by way of undue reverence. There is an implication of such an attitude in the reaction of Cornelius to the ministry of the apostle Peter: "Cornelius met him, and fell down at his feet, and worshipped him" (Acts 10:25). Peter had to remind him: "Stand up; I myself also am a man" (v26). He must not be lauded, put on a pedestal and blindly adored, for, after all, he is only a man. But he is God's man, and therefore he must not be treated with disrespect, or contempt, or be ignored.
What, then, is the right treatment of the minister? A man who spends his life in the ministry of the Word and prayer, serving men's souls faithfully, should be properly honoured by those among whom he labours. Writing to the Thessalonians in his first letter Paul says three things:
(a) You are to know your minister. "Know them which labour among you, and are over you in the Lord, and admonish you" (1Thess.5:12). Yes, they "admonish" you. Prepare for that. Their words must not antagonise you. You are to recognise, or "know" your minister. The people of God must in other words get to know their faithful gospel minister in a personal way. They should be sensitive to his personal needs. They should try to help him and relieve him from burdens that may diminish the effectiveness of his ministry among them. Many problems arise because people don't take the trouble to know their minister. Of course pastors may fail to get to know their people sufficiently well, and that is a fault. But very often they struggle because people are not taking the trouble to get to know them.
(b) You are to esteem your minister, "to esteem them very highly" (1Thess.5:13). The faithful gospel minister should have the high esteem, the respect, of God's people. He is, after all, God's ambassador and should be treated as such. He is of course only flesh and blood like others, and is fallible. However, too often when problems arise the poor minister becomes the object of criticism and antagonism. And often that leads to a weakening of the ministry, especially in the area of 'admonition'.
(c) You are to love your minister, "(and to esteem them very highly) in love for their work's sake" (1Thess.5:13). It is often said that the pastor must earn the respect of his people, and there is a truth in that. However, the poor pressured pastor ought to have the love of his people. He is to be known and esteemed "in love". You must love your minister "for their work's sake". What are they trying to do? To win souls and be faithful to their Master in caring for them. They don't earn love for that, but rather they deserve, and need your love for that work.
When there are such attitudes of knowing and esteeming the minister as God's man and loving him for the work done under God, albeit he may preach uncomfortable truths, then there will be a fellowship which will tend to manifest peace and blessing among the members of the church(v13).

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